Who is the most important person in your life?
Most of the time when I ask this question I am met with an answer along the lines of “my children/family/ husband/partner”.
But what if I was to say that YOU are the most important person in your life?
You might be really struggling with that statement right now, feeling that it would be selfish, egotistical or arrogant to say something like that. I promise you it’s none of those things. It’s more about putting your needs, wants and desires first so that you are in a better place to love and care for all the other important people in your life.
When you are happy, fulfilled and content on the inside, it cannot help but spill over into every other area of your life …and only then do your children, family, husband, partner, friends or work colleagues truly get the best version of you.
So how do you become the most important person in your life without feeling guilty or selfish (and let’s face it, as women we tend to do guilt pretty well don’t we)?
Here are some simple ways to start putting yourself at the top of your important list: (more…)